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My Bridal Shower

September 15, 2019 8 Comments

I debated back and forth for so long about having a bridal shower. I knew it would be a lot of work for my aunt, who graciously hosted, my MOH, who organized it, and my mom who does everything all the time.

I also wondered if my guests would truly have fun – I couldn’t get over the feeling that my nearest and dearest would have to spend their time, effort, and $$$ on me. It felt really self-indulgent.

In talking it over, I admitted that I would never feel that way about my friends who have showers or celebrations – I love commemorating life events like getting married, having a baby, getting a new job, etc. and I never feel like my friends are asking for attention.

So with that being said, I am really glad I let my aunt, MOH, and mom throw my shower. If any of you feel similarly – you don’t like letting others going out of their way to treat you – my advice would be to let them. Let them, and enjoy it! Chances are, they love you and are truly happy to celebrate you. And you, most likely, would do the same for them.

My aunt hosted my shower in the party room of her condo in June. It was beautiful, and we decorated with helium balloons, a balloon garland, bouquets of flowers, and a kick ass dessert table.

My soon-to-be sister-in-law 🙂 spent so much time putting together the stunning bouquets, and my aunt sourced beautiful crystal and glass vases to put them in on each table. I loved them!

My cousin and MOH went above and beyond with all the desserts. She is a very talented baker, and made all the treats just the way I like them (the cupcakes had extra icing :)). She even made bridal shower themed cupcake stand with my mom! She also made a custom cocktail (a “grown up Shirley Temple”) and decorated all the glasses.

My dad in his element behind the bar
I love this picture of Azim and his grandma

My mom put out a delicious spread of tea sandwiches, cheese, crackers, fruits and veggies. She sourced dozens of beautiful, high quality vintage teacups to fill with tea and handmade cookies for our favours. She spent countless hours coordinating, planning, and organizing everything, and I am so grateful.

My MOH and STB SIL had a bunch of fun games organized for us, but my favourite had to be the toilet paper dress game. My friends and family are very talented designers, and came up with hilarious renditions of gowns 🙂

Azim escorting my grandmas down the “catwalk” 🙂
My adorable Ah-po living her best life

We opened gifts last – I was apprehensive about doing this too, but my mom said it was traditional to do this…

Beautiful gift from my mother-in-law 🙂
Me getting emotional – I LOVE cards
I keep all my cards

I understood why at the end 🙂 While I was opening gifts, she was collecting all the wrapping paper and insisting I keep the paper and ribbons intact instead of ripping them. I thought she was just being frugal and saving the paper for reuse, but that wasn’t the case! My godmother and her were secretly making a wrapping paper dress for Azim to wear!

This is tradition in my family, as you’ll see in the picture below! I don’t know why we do it, and I don’t know if anyone else does it, but it’s silly, and hilarious, and a lot of fun 🙂 My lovely godmother is actually really creative – I think her design was pretty good! She also brought homemade biscotti to the shower, which I loved <3

I truly felt showered with love, and I am so grateful to all my loved ones who celebrated, sent gifts, and wrote me notes. I am also beyond appreciative to my Auntie Anne, Jasmine, Amentha, my mom, and brother for all the effort they put in to make it the perfect celebration.

Lots of love,



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  • lillian September 16, 2019 at 7:33 am

    You so deserve it.

    • jocelyncaithness September 17, 2019 at 7:11 pm

      Thank you mommy

  • Marilee September 16, 2019 at 6:22 pm

    Love!! And loved showering you with love that day 💕

    • jocelyncaithness September 17, 2019 at 7:10 pm


  • Hanan Dhanani September 16, 2019 at 7:00 pm

    One of the best days of the summer! (Other than your actual wedding of course)!

    • jocelyncaithness September 17, 2019 at 7:10 pm


  • Nabila Islam October 4, 2019 at 11:24 am

    Looks like you had an incredible time and everyone who cared about you was there to shower you with their love and blessings. I keep all my cards too; rereading them always brings me back to sweet moments that have passed and joy at having such thoughtful people in my life.

  • A look back at 2019 – Jocelyn Caithness January 1, 2020 at 9:47 pm

    […] the busiest summer of my life. In this month alone I managed to pack in our engagement photoshoot, my bridal shower, a truly astonishing number of job interviews, and a trip to Sweden to attend our dear […]

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